‘Partner abuse is normal’ say disadvantaged youth

The levels of violence girls and boys from disadvantaged backgrounds experience in their partner relationships is revealed in new NSPCC research¹ launched today.

The researchers interviewed 82 boys and girls aged 13-18 for the report, 'Standing on my own two feet'. It is the first time there has been an in-depth look at violence in the intimate relationships of disadvantaged teenagers who are not in mainstream education. Some of those who took part had been permanently excluded from school, were young offenders or teenage mothers.

The research comes as the Government launches the second phase of its advertising campaign to challenge the attitudes of teenagers to violence and abuse in relationships.  The findings underline the importance of tackling this issue both within and outside of schools.

Although the study does not claim to be representative of the UK population, it suggests levels of violence in teenage relationships may be much higher than previously assumed.
More than half of the girls who supplied information in the study said they had been in a sexually violent relationship before they were 18 and over half of the girls reported that they had been a victim of physical violence in at least one of their intimate relationships. A quarter of boys who responded said they had dated physically aggressive partners. 

Today's research suggests that children from disadvantaged backgrounds are much more likely to experience abusive partner relationships than their better-off counterparts. The research ran parallel to a landmark study (2009)² on violence in relationships among those in mainstream education.

Many of the young people who participated in the study appeared to accept violence as normal, although unwanted, aspect of being in a relationship. Some suffered black eyes, lost teeth or were head-butted.

Christine Barter, from Bristol University, who led the research said:

"Tragically, control and violence seem to be so prevalent in these relationships that girls are unable to recognise its impact - it is an everyday happening. Many girls found it very difficult to see that their partner's behaviour is abusive. The government and those working with young people need to recognise that teenage partner violence is an even more profound child welfare issue for disadvantaged young people. This will help professionals assess the possibility of partner violence and challenge young people's beliefs that this abuse is a normal part of teenage relationships."

Emma, who was interviewed for the study, told researchers how she had been forced into having sex 'quite a few times' when she was 13: "I've never shouted rape or anything. I've never been able to say that I've been raped but it's not like I've given consent. In certain situations it has been pushed on me and it has been really horrible."

Fourteen-year-old Jo said her boyfriend had, "only hit me in the face once. He used to push me down the stairs and stuff though."

Even though half of all those taking part in the research had been assigned a social worker most did not reveal their partner's violence. Many said that welfare professionals were not interested in this aspect of their lives.
 
Andrew Flanagan, Chief Executive of the NSPCC, said:

"It's appalling that violence in these relationships seems to be just part of daily life.  These findings underline how important it is for children to be educated about abusive behaviour and for them to feel able to seek help to prevent it happening. The NSPCC is making strides to educate children and young people on recognising abuse through our newly launched Schools Service. This knowledge empowers our youth to take action and get help.

"Only through awareness can we start to reduce abuse which damages so many young lives."

Home Office Minister Lynne Featherstone said:

"Although teenage romances can often be short lived, we know that sometimes, they can be just as intense and important as adult relationships. In extreme cases they can also fall foul of the same pitfalls and dangers. That's why it is so important to ensure young people develop healthy relationships and know where to go for support when things go wrong.

"We need to challenge the attitudes and behaviours that foster an acceptance of abusive relationships by intervening as early as possible.  Bringing the issue out in the open will help teenagers feel confident to challenge abusive behaviour when they experience it or see it."

If you are concerned about a child, ring the NSPCC 24-hour Helpline at 0808 800 5000. Children and young people can call ChildLine for free at any time at 0800 1111.

The report is available on the NSPCC website: www.nspcc.org.uk/research

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For further information

Sherylin Thompson, Senior Press Officer, NSPCC, Phone: 020 7825 2739, E-mail: sherylin.thompson@nspcc.org.uk, Out of hours: 07976 206 625.

Caroline Clancy, Press Officer, University of Bristol, Phone: 0117 928
8086, E-mail: caroline.clancy@bristol.ac.uk, Out of hours: 07776
170238.

Eleanor Hart, Press Officer, Home Office, Phone: 020 7035 3812, E-mail: Eleanor.hart@homeoffice.gsi.gov.uk, Out of hours: 020 7035 3535

Notes to editors:

1Standing on my own two feet (2011) involved semi-structured interviews with 82 young people, 44 boys and 38 girls, from a range of agencies and organisations working with disadvantaged young people across the south-west of England.  Young people were aged between 13 and 18 years-old, the majority of participants (80%) were aged 15 years-old or above.

2The research is a follow up study to Partner exploitation and violence in teenage intimate relationships (2009). Barter, C.; McCarry, M.; Berridge, D.; Evans, K. Research undertaken at Bristol University and the NSPCC.

With 75 per cent of girls and 50 per cent of boys reporting that they have experienced some form of emotional abuse, the TV, cinema, outdoor and online advertising campaign aims to help teenagers recognise abusive behaviour at an early stage, before it escalates to physical violence.

The adverts are directed towards 13-18 year-olds and feature young couples in a variety of settings. Viewers are challenged to identify controlling behaviour and to reconsider their own attitudes about what is acceptable behaviour in relationships.
All the adverts point young people towards a website (www.direct.gov.uk/thisisabuse) where they can find information, seek help and chat with their peers. The site is designed to encourage sharing of the campaign materials across social networks and will also host live web chats with experts.