Caring Dads: Safer Children Helping dads address violent behaviour

Children can be deeply traumatised if they see violence between their parents or carers, even if they aren't physically harmed.

Caring Dads: Safer Children is for fathers who are having difficulties in their family because of their abusive or violent behaviour.

It aims to help dads:

  • stop their abuse
  • recognise the impact their behaviour has on their children
  • improve their parenting.

young boy hugs his father

How it works

Fathers come to the NSPCC to work together in a discreet, supportive group. They attend 17 sessions focusing on topics like:

  • how your behaviour as a parent can be affected by your own childhood experiences of parenting
  • what emotionally abusive, controlling or violent behaviour between parents feels like for a child 
  • what children need from their dads to improve and strengthen their relationship.

Children's stories

"I'd noticed my oldest child, who is 17, starting to behave the way I was – he thought it was acceptable."

Read Gary's story

Evaluating the impact

Find out how we're evaluating Caring Dads: Safer Children.

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Where Caring Dads: Safer Children is available

Belfast

02820 441650

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Domestic abuse

Witnessing domestic abuse is child abuse, and teenagers can suffer domestic abuse in their relationships. 
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Neglect

Neglect is the ongoing failure to meet a child's basic needs. It's dangerous and children can suffer serious and long-term harm.
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Emotional abuse

Children who are emotionally abused suffer emotional maltreatment or neglect. It's sometimes called psychological abuse and can cause children serious harm.
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Physical abuse

Physical abuse is deliberately hurting a child causing injuries such as bruises, broken bones, burns or cuts.
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Child abuse and neglect

Find out what child abuse is, how to spot the signs, who is affected and what you should do if you're worried about a child
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