Annie's story

After going into care Annie felt she had no control over her life or where she lived. But with our support, she was able to understand her rights and revoke her care order.

I didn't feel as though I was in control of my life

"I lived with my parents until I was about eight years old but, for different reasons, they both ended up in prison so my siblings and I went to live with a relative.

After a while it was decided we should all be placed into foster care and we enjoyed a couple of years in a short-term placement. Eventually we had to leave the short-term care and we were moved to a more permanent foster family.

"Some of the decisions that were being made about my life didn’t feel like the right thing for me but at that time I didn’t know that I had the right to challenge them. "

I can't say it was easy returning.  I didn’t feel as though I was in control of my life and I found my situation confusing because I was constantly being told by adults that I had to do things I didn’t want to do."


The NSPCC helped me to get my voice heard

"I made contact with the NSPCC and I was so happy to find Tessa* still worked there.  I had met Tessa several years before when I was placed into care after my parents were sent to prison.  She had offered me support and advice back then.  

I told her about some of the concerns I'd had in my foster placement and why I'd run away. Tessa talked to me about children's rights and helped me to understand that children have rights too. She explained that I was entitled to have a say in what was happening to me in terms of my care order and where I wanted to live. She helped me to get access to the review meetings about my care order.

Teenage girl standing outside in sunshine

"The support I received helped me to feel like a worthwhile person. The NSPCC made me feel as though I was believed and they believed in me. Trust was a big thing for me. "

Initially I was told I wouldn't be able to stay with my relative and that I would have to be placed back into foster care. But with the NSPCC's help I was able to appeal against that decision and eventually the decision was overturned and I was able to stabilise my placement with my relative and stay there.

The advocacy support I got from the NSPCC helped to build my confidence and made me feel as though I could stand up for myself. I now fully understand my rights and I know how I should be treated. I felt less anxious about things in my home life which meant I could be more at ease to concentrate on being a teenager, having fun and doing well at school. 

If there are other children who feel like they need help and support I would say to them to contact the NSPCC. Talk about your problems and the NSPCC will listen to you and tell you how they can help or how you can get help. By telling my story I hope it encourages other children to speak out and I want them to know they're not on their own."

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